Building Emotional Skills for Middle School Classrooms

Middle school is a fascinating age. Teachers who work with these students are a special group, ones who love that transition stage where you never quite know who is going to walk through the door . . . a child or an emerging young adult all in the same body.  Teaching mindfulness to these young folks is less about abstract theory and more about ritual and repetition. Meeting your students’ developing capacities and interests while providing affirmation, security, and love. Clear guardrails, predictable routines, and short, tactile practices that put attention into their bodies work well. Guardrails and routines can be embedded in classrooms without them feeling rigid or forced. If there’s one thing Middle Schoolers need is flexibility and pliability. This is the theme of the recent episode “Middle School Mindfulness Made Practical” by Amy Edelstein on The Conscious Classroom.

A core challenge at this age is objectifying thought. Asking a seventh grader to “watch the thinker” as is often heard in some mindfulness classrooms tends to go nowhere; the concept of objectifying thought is ahead of their developmental grasp. Help students name feelings, read cues in others, and practice communication that is kind and clear.

Healthy competition can be a force for good when it is playful and bounded. Short games with simple rewards lift energy and give students a reason to try. Mindfulness practice should remain modest: three to five minutes of stillness is plenty unless there is movement or a body scan. The important thing to focus on is repetition. A three-part breathing sequence—posture focus, a short breath set, a pause to notice, then repeat—builds skill without taxing their growing brains. Close each cycle of mindful breathing with a stretch or question, then a second round. Introduce a novel variation to switch it up—a star breath or “breathing hands”—to keep engagement fresh while reinforcing the same core skill of steady mindful breath focus.

To invite reflection, give a structured activity:  Write a haiku, a limerick, or a sentence stem about the practice… “My breath was like…”. These formats pull language arts into mindfulness, giving students a familiar channel to express inner states. Over time, they learn to map sensations to emotions, and emotions to needs.

Middle Schoolers respond well to the mindfulness practice, we look forward to hearing how you’ve employed it and what successes you’ve had!

For more, listen to Amy Edelstein’s recent podcast on The Conscious Classroom. Available wherever you listen to your podcasts!

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